"The Beautiful Ones"

Although I don't mention this often..I think it would be an understatement to say that I have some pretty great people in my life... Last night I found myself deep in thought about a few things that have been on my mind lately. I've come to the realization that God has strategically placed certain people in my life for various reasons. I can literally count on 1 hand the amount of "true" friends I have...and the funny thing is I'd probably have a couple of fingers remaining left out of the count...Out of that number there's only 1 that surpasses the rest...a true gem.

Sometimes hearing about other peoples flaky friendships, problems etc. makes me sit back & realize how good I've got it...not in a self indulged or boastful kind of way but more so blessed. I'm blessed to have a BFF such as you...compassionate, honest & unwavering are just a few of the many qualities in which you posses. You've never judged me nor have I you... We've known each other basically all of our lives & I'd probably get a brain freeze trying to think of a time we've ever gotten "seriously" angry with one another. I frequently laugh to myself about some of the memories we've shared...

  • the inside jokes..."Deputy Doo-Dog"
  • the wack dudes..."Yo is that an Escalade I hear outside?"
  • the random text messages...
Me: We're gettin' old...Somebody asked my age today and I couldn't damn remember. I was like 26??? Hahaha had to call my mama to confirm..smh

BFF: hahaha geah I never know how old I am...yeah u r 26 lol lol...

Me: hahaha I am NOT 26 fool...you'll still be on ur walker b4 me oldie locks....

BFF: I will be walking up to pay the last layaway on ur walker....

Me: lmao! throw some D's on it...
I've always been a firm believer of the saying "pick your friends like you pick your fruit!" It speaks in multitudes...Anywho you know I'm not one of many words so I think this song sums it up...

Thank you for being not just my BFF but also my sister...

~Luv Ya Lots...

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. {1 Corinthians 13:1-8a and 13}

alright yall tell me what's so special about your BFF's???


  1. Me and my girls have a secret language where we BARELY pronounce words, yet we ALL understand what we're saying.
    We employ this at times when we need to shit-talk, yet the person we're talking about is in earshot. (Bitches, I know! LOL)
    An example is when a bad ass kid belonging to a certain ethnic group runs in front of our cart at Wal-Meezy, one of us will say, "Hih uhboday hone it at otam lil heh-heh-kin!" which in real talk is "IF SOMEBODY DON'T GET THAT GOTDAYUM LIL MEXICAN!" (no racist)

    Ahhh! True friends are hard to find! Hold on to them TIGHT, ODZ! All my TRUE friends I've known since I was in elementary, jr. high, high school or college and I wouldn't trade them for the WORLD!

  2. Nice post! BFF are such a marvelous thing! I love my BFF because we've been through it all together, and made it through! I can always count on my BFF to be there and vice versa, which is crucial. Too many people want you to be there for them but don't want to return the favor!


    Man I have the BEST BFF in the world. Anybody who can deal with my mood swings, smart mouth, and illogical way of thinking without getting upset or taking it personal is a saint. LOL

    More importantly, she's just the most beautiful person inside out. People look at her and thinks he's stuck up but little do they know she's the sweetest, down the earth chick you'll ever meet. I strive to be like her everyday.

  4. I love it! Odara I feel the same way if not more. You have truely been a blessing from the start definitly a permanent piece of lifes puzzle for me. Even when things get all shaken up I can count on my Bff to be there standing strong. We have so much fun and can laugh at the craziest things that others dont understand. But its only cause its us lol.Even when u got barked at by WJJ's sister. You didnt even hang up. hahahahaha Words can never express how I feel or how thankful I am to have you the true gem in my life. :) Luv ya